Very good article. Makes me wonder why in separated families, every move we make, whether imposed by state or between BM and DH, it's always with the view to put the kids first. Maybe that's why skids grow up to be entitled little shits.
That's exactly why they are entitled little shits. Our dear OHs, however, rarely see that connection. DH sees it but still acts like the world needs to stop because SD is visiting.
True to form OH dismissed it (like anything that doesn't fit his rosy soft glowing bubble). Because, things aren't that bad don't you know....
How frustrating! He doesn't want to see it, there is no denying "putting the kids first" does them no favors. It's as though they see it but respond back, "Well, not my kid." No buddy, exactly your kid!